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I’m curious, what’s next for you?

Detailed shot of the fence surrounding the white temple in Chiang Rai, Thailand

The full question: So, now that you’ve had the intimacy, the evolution, the awakening, and so much more, I’m curious about what’s next. I know you felt “alive” on your journey and I have no idea what’s ahead for you. How will you keep that vibe? I’m also curious as a teacher, what can you share for students. Could you post a tab on your website for writing prompts? Images students could view and use for inspiration to free write?

That’s a good question that we can’t completely answer right now. What’s next is often a topic of conversation for us. Our current plan involves a trip home for a few months this holiday season with an intent to take off again although to which destination is still up for grabs. We also have to consider how we’ll continue to fund our travels in the future and although we have some ideas that excite us, we don’t have any definitive answers. One thing I can tell you with confidence is that we have a commitment to one another that we follow our passions and we don’t settle for anything that doesn’t feed our spirits and bring us joy. Period. So, whatever it is, it’ll be good!

As for keeping the vibe, I think that is a matter of participating fully in our lives no matter where we are. I find it easier to feel ‘alive’ when exploring a place that I’ve never been where everything is new. This gets more difficult the longer we are there and the more familiar things become. It’s then my practice to continuously bring a beginner’s mind to each situation. Sometimes I am successful at this and life is fabulously colorful and vibrant. At other times I go on auto-pilot and become numb to the beauty around me. Every day (every moment) gives me a new chance to practice.

Your idea for students is a great one. Adrian and I both feel that travel has been the single greatest education of our lives and the chance to give that away or encourage that in any regard would be of interest to us. Maybe we can brainstorm and collaborate on the best possible way to go about that. Let’s skype!

Thank you, Patti Donnelly. – Ashlie

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  1. Patti Donnelly Reply
    My eyes tear up this morning with happiness as I read this. Partly because it evokes memories of my grandfather, Dr. Ralph Cummings, who opened my heart to where he had such an influence, where my mom went to school, and where my parents met...India. Billy knows him too. Your trip allows us all to virtually experience what we could not otherwise. I can also extend this to my students. How powerful is that? Something you said sparked a thought. You mentioned the beginner's mind. In my Language Arts classroom, I use a framework for reflections: novice, apprentice, proficient, and distinguished. There is no judgement and the goal is not to be distinguished. Being at the beginning is just as important. That needs to be emphasized more. Grateful for letting us all join on your journey and looking forward to collaborating!

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